What Maternity Leave Can Really Cost Working Mothers
From Growing Pains · 42:12
Show by HoneyKids Asia
You were told to keep your head down, do good work and wait to be noticed. That may have cost you. Our guest spent ten years inside the rooms where promotions and pay rises get decided. She has bad news about that plan.Angel Kilian coaches ambitious professionals, many of them mums. One client doubled her income. It did not start with a new skill.In this episode, Angel talks about money, maternity leave, layoffs, AI and the small matter of being home by six. There is a payslip fact most of us never knew. There is a hiring confession and the rapid-fire round with one phrase you may want to delete from your inbox forever.Good work was never the problem. Something else is.Press play before someone else gets the credit.About the GuestAngel Kilian is the founder and CEO of Career inFocus, a career consultancy for professionals going after senior roles, promotions and higher pay. She spent a decade leading recruitment teams and sat in the talent reviews where careers get decided. She is a two-time LinkedIn Top Voice.Career inFocus: https://www.careerinfocus.co/Career inFocus on Instagram: @careerinfocus.coAngel on LinkedIn: https://sg.linkedin.com/in/angelkilianCareer inFocus on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@careerinfocusWhat You’ll Take AwayWhat actually gets said about you in a room you were never invited toThe first step a client took to double her income (and why it wasn’t a course)What Angel’s CEO told her that changed how she talks about work in progressWhy asking for more can get a woman labelled “difficult,” and the language that sidesteps itThe payslip question no Singapore law stops an employer from askingThe one thing to confirm about your bonus before maternity leaveWhy AI can copy your work but not the thing Angel says to show insteadIN THIS EPISODE:00:00 Teaser: Why Good Work Isn’t Enough00:58 Introduction03:04 What Really Happens in Talent Review Rooms04:51 The Career Myth: “Do Good Work and You’ll Be Noticed”09:07 How One Woman Doubled Her Income11:53 Is It Performance, Perception or the System?13:45 How to Talk About Your Work Without Bragging16:51 Stop Waiting Until You’ve Already Won19:36 How to Be Seen When You’re Not in the Room20:53 Why Women Struggle to Ask for More23:44 Stop Letting Your Last Payslip Decide Your Worth26:53 Maternity Leave, Ambition & Your Earning Power32:19 Layoffs, AI & Building Career Security35:32 Career Breaks: How to Own the Gap40:45 Rapid Fire & Faz’s Top TakeawaysConnect with Growing PainsGrowing Pains is HoneyKids Asia’s podcast for the conversations you want to have after the kids go to bed.YouTube: @growingpains.honeykidsInstagram: @honeykidsasiaWebsite: honeykidsasia.comHit subscribe so you don’t miss an episode. If this one resonated, share it with a parent who needs it.Growing Pains is produced in partnership with Poddster, Singapore’s podcast studio.
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