Why People Are Choosing AI Over Human Relationships with Andrew Phipps

From The Pleasure Principles with Dr Jordin Wiggins · 45:04

Show by Dr Jordin Wiggins ND

We were taught how to avoid pregnancy and how to avoid STDs. That was it. Nobody taught us about pleasure, desire, or what intimacy is actually supposed to feel like. Nobody taught us what coercion looks like inside a long-term relationship, or that consent is something ongoing and not something you say once and forfeit forever. Nobody told us that the clitoris is literally a pleasure organ, the only organ in the human body that exists purely for pleasure, and that we are allowed to treat it that way. Andrew Phipps is the host of The Intimacy Inquiry podcast and a PhD candidate researching the ethics of AI relationships. He spent years in corporate real estate before deciding he wanted to make something his teenage kids could actually learn from. What started as a podcast about intimacy became a deep excavation of power, pleasure, and everything society has deliberately left out of the conversation. We talk about AI companions and whether a relationship with an AI is necessarily worse than a painful or coercive human one. We talk about the freeze response, and why so many women go to their trauma place and let whatever happens happen rather than risk making a situation worse by saying no. We talk about the one percent conviction rate for sexual assault and what that means for who actually holds power What shifts, in relationships, in bodies, in entire lives, when pleasure stops being the last thing on the list and becomes the point? If you have ever endured instead of wanted, performed instead of felt, or given more than you ever received, this episode is going to land. Connect with Andrew: The Intimacy Inquiry Podcast Connect with JORDIN Subscribe to The Pleasure Path on Substack for deeper frameworks, case studies, and diagnostic tools that accompany this work. And if you want to map out exactly where you are and where things are going wrong, book a Pleasure Path Assessment. If you want to understand your patterns first, take the Super Trait Quiz. -Ontario Residents can book a clinical appointment HERE. If you are ready for personalized support and do not want to keep analyzing this on your own, APPLY HERE for private coaching. 1:1 Intimacy & Pleasure Coaching with Dr. Jordin Wiggins Want to go deeper? Join me over on Substack for The Pleasure Path, HERE. Connect with me on Instagram [@drjordinwiggins] CHAPTER 3:15 Andrew Phipps and the Intimacy Inquiry 6:40 The Ethics of AI Relationships 10:25 AI vs Human Connection Risks 14:50 Sex Work and Societal Perspectives 18:35 Why Pleasure is Vital for Health 22:10 Modern Sex Education for Teens 26:45 Women's Rights and Bodily Autonomy 31:15 Understanding Consent vs Coercion 35:40 The Reality of Power Dynamics 40:20 Ongoing Consent in Relationships 42:55 Redefining Sex and Pleasure

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