The Loneliness of Becoming Someone New
From 9 Lives · 00:39:53
Show by Cassia Tierney Clarke
No one tells you that becoming healthier can make you lonelier.You stop drinking. You start training. You care about different things. You leave earlier. You say no more. You stop wanting the same weekends, the same conversations, the same version of your life.And then people start looking at you differently.Sometimes they joke about it. Sometimes they judge it. Sometimes nobody says anything at all, but you can feel that something has shifted. You still love them, but the room does not fit the way it used to.That is what this episode is about.Outgrowing people. Outgrowing habits. Outgrowing whole versions of yourself that once felt like home.Why changing your life can make you feel more alone before it makes you feel more free. Why people can struggle when you stop playing the role they knew you for. Why missing an old life does not always mean you want it back. Why it can feel so tempting to become smaller again just to belong somewhere familiar.I wanted to understand what is actually happening underneath that. The psychology of belonging, identity, social rejection, nostalgia, old roles, and why being judged by people you love can make growth feel like grief.Because sometimes the hardest part of changing is not the discipline.It is realising that some people only knew how to meet you where you used to be.Until next week,Cass 🖤
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