#148 BDSM Fantasy vs Reality: The Heart of Dominance & Submission with Anton Fulmen
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Show by Emma | Psychology of Desire
What happens when your BDSM fantasies of dominance, submission and absolute control meet the realities of human relationships?In this episode I'm joined by Anton Fulmen, author of The Heart of Dominance and BDSM educator behind Consensual Dominance, to explore the psychology of BDSM fantasies, dominance and submission, erotic power exchange and the difference between fantasy and reality.We explore:BDSM fantasy vs reality: Why our sexual fantasies don't always reflect what we want to experience.The heart of dominance: What it means to hold power, and the responsibilities that come with consensual control.Dominance and submission: How imagined power dynamics differ from real BDSM relationships.The vulnerability of Dominants: Why being in control can involve emotional exposure, trust and uncertainty.Negotiating erotic desires: What happens when partners have different fantasies, expectations or needs.Healthy power exchange: Understanding the boundaries between devotion, dependence and potentially harmful dynamics.Research article: Sexual Fantasy Research: A Contemporary Review.This episode is proudly sponsored by Stigma Health.Interested in Kinky Speed Dating? Register Here.The Erotic Realm now has it’s own merchandise! If you love the show and want to support it check it out here.Visit psychologyofdesire.com to support the podcast, or apply to be a guest. I'd love to chat to you.Thanks for listening!Stay perverted,EmmaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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