we dont know yet
By cinder + carol
Categories: Society & Culture, Relationships
the podcast for your quarter life crisis dating • adulting • friendships 🎙️ new ep every tuesday
48 episodes indexed on PodSearch.
Recent episodes
- are you husband material?
s1 e47: this week, our friend sophia!! joins us to dissect what makes a guy (or girl!) marriage-ready, and how what we look for in a partner has evolved from our early twenties to late twenties (?!). dating in our modern day is an art and science.
- how to define success for yourself
s1 e46: what are we optimizing for each day, how does that culminate into a "life well-lived"... and who told us that was right? in carol's #funemployment, we're rabbit-holing down uncharted territory in existential (but also possibly world-shifting, brain-expanding) thought. this week we ask…
- what a guy's friendships say about him
s1 e45: is it a red flag if he has a girl bestie? what about 5, and no guyfriends?! what's the line between yellow and red flag, and what's a definite green flag -- we bring back Roommate #3 (TM) lillian to break it down.this week's member-exclusive: https://youtu.be/IaFZ_v9zd_Qwhat to watch next…
- carol quits her job !!
s1 e44: SHE'S FUNEMPLOYEDDDDDDD join as she spills the decision making process and FRESH reacts to her last day... intertwined with reflections on how to find motivation at work, coworker friendships, and why people around the world aren't getting married. join the cinder & carol club for…
- how to let go of future plans in your 20s
s1 e43: this one's for all you overachievers, performers, and planners (J on the myers briggs, anyone?) if you're like us, keenly aware that the 20s-30s is a limited time with endless potential, how do you decide what the best use of each day is?we welcome special guest DYOONNNN to the pod to…
- how to flirt in our 20s
s1 e42: this episode is more than just getting the girl. it's more than the pursuit. it's about what a girl (arguably anyone, but we humbly admit our biased perspective) wants when interest is made known -- how to do it, what to say, and what to definitely not say. do you relate??? other episodes…
- to all the boys we've loved before...
s1 e41: featuring our NEW ROOMMATE lillian :DD. it's a tell-all. our dignities were tucked neatly away for this one. filters off. helmets on. seatbelts fastened because you're in for a ride. members-only exclusive (our numbers and full, uncut reactions): watch on youtube here. #dating #nyc #twenties
- how to make dating apps work for you
s1 e40: this week we go unfiltered on what happened in our lives (and lives of close friends) recently, including attempted hinge dates, the duality of man, and AYCE hotpot. it's summer in nyc, and that means there's tea to spill... what to watch next:are you a red flag? & other dating truths in…
- how to be cracked at your hobbies
s1 e39: we welcome back our friend sean! sean is arguably one of the most professional hobbyists we know, so we asked him for advice on challenging oneself in new areas, staying motivated, and getting really good at (even finding fulfillment in) doing new things.what new hobbies are you trying…
- the time we almost broke up
s1 e38: moving to manhattan might've done some damage... join us as we debrief our recent move for the first time together -- new differences uncovered, ways of handling stress, and a peek into the pros and cons of manhattan. if this isn't self-imposed therapy we don't know what is.episodes to…
- how to sustain healthy long-term relationships
s1 e37: this week we welcome vicki to the pod!! someone who has depth and breadth of experience building, tending, and sustaining deep friendships and a romantic relationship for more than 10 years! we inject hope back into the conversation about changing community... that it IS possible to foster…
- how to let a guy down easy
s1 e36: sometimes you meet someone, hit it off... and sometimes it unfortunately comes to an end. breakups suck. this episode, we process (maybe vent about) how breakup convos have been handled maturely and well, handled poorly, and handled real stoopid. can you relate?
- what to do when your best friend starts dating
s1 e35: you know that moment when you come home to a text from your day 1 bestie (and/or your roommate) telling you they're ~ dating ~ :')what's your reaction? what's your role to play in vetting this new stranger?? hear what we did, featuring our good friend (and long-time roommate of the…
- how girls think about their guy friends
s1 e34: how girls think about their guy friendsso let's say your guy friend comes up to you asking about your girl friend... do you help him? is he worth being helped?all these scenarios and more with our friend and neighbor Daren, welcoming him onto the pod to get the insider info on how girl…
- lessons in learning (and re-learning) our limits
s1 e33: whether it's a new relationship, or friends visiting the city, or travel fatigue, or moving apartments... sometimes we're brought to the end of ourselves, socially, mentally, physically -- and it makes us frenzied, forgetful, dropping the ball on important people and things, or just tired…
- how to actually make long distance work (ft. evelyn)
s1 e32: how long distance saved my relationship ft. evelynwhat does it take to actually make it? and are there even maybe... advantages? we finally have evelyn (aka ed, aka the person who named us) on the pod 🙂this week ev shares her long distance story - how they went from college floormates to…
- do you tell a friend you don’t like their boyfriend?
have you ever watched your friend make a really bad dating decision and debate if you should say something? when to say it? how??? that’s what we break down this week: how we’ve done it through the years of witnessing each other’s dating lives, how we’ve stepped in and/or overstepped, defended and…
- conversations with our guy friends (ft. andrew cheng)
we're back, and we missed you!! on this week's pod, we kick it with chunch (aka andrew cheng) to get a glimpse into the male brain on dating expectations, food choices, traveling, and other random things we think about in our 20s. disclaimer: content includes excessive roasting and sarcasm, do not…
- the reality of dating after graduation
something they don't tell you about graduating college is that life gets more serious, including the relationships you explore, create, and keep :). this week, carol and cinder spill some beans on what their unique experiences were of dating in college vs. dating as post-grads; what's easier…
- are we being nice or flirting? THE MALE PERSPECTIVE
WE HEARD YOU. this time, we invited two friends chunch (aka andrew c) & matty z (aka matt zhang) onto the pod for their takes on YOUR stories of being led on by someone or accidentally leading someone on (oof) to shed light on the MALE PERSPECTIVES on these grey area situations.we give our honest…
- the power of being alone
what causes us to feel uncomfortable with being alone? is it social pressures, western culture, our digital age, evolutionary selection for sociability and safety?? on this special edition cinder session, hear the perspectives of 20+ people including cinder, friends of cinder, and friends on…
- what they don't tell you about new grad life
it's grad season!! seeing our friends (and sibling) graduate this month got us reminiscing on our not-so-long-ago grad days, and how free we were then, and how little we knew about what we had coming.... join as we reflect on just a few lessons (of many) learned during the undergrad-to-new-grad…
- med school vs. corporate: work-hard-play-hard mindset
welcome timmy to the pod!!! this week he shares a day in the life of a #medstudent in nyc, and how he balances that with community, hobbies, and making the most of the city. how different (and similar) are our lives, actually? how do we prioritize and manage our time? how do we spend money?THAT…
- are you emotionally available? & our biggest attachment issues
welcome to our possibly most raw and vulnerable episode yet, where we break down the 4 attachment styles (anxious, avoidant, disorganized, secure,) and how understanding them has fundamentally changed how we approach dating, friendships, and every kind of relationship.we're leading with this…
- making, growing, & sustaining friendships in our 20s
one of the many things they don't tell you when you graduate is that friendship gets a lot harder -- making friends, growing some, sustaining a few. we asked our good friend and subject-matter-expert JP to join us in sharing perspectives on navigating post-grad friendship-finding and redefining…
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