How the Fuck Are You Going to Lead an Industry When You’re Asking for Directions?
From That Bitch · 00:26:55
Show by Kim Arneson
“How the fuck are you going to lead an industry when you’re literally asking for directions?” Kim poses this question again and again in this episode and she’s not asking it from a pedestal. She’s asking because she lived it.This solo is a call-out that doubles as a confession. Kim walks through her own years of saying she wanted to be an industry icon while secretly behaving like a puppy dog following around anyone with more success than her showing up in masterminds asking “just tell me what to do,” handing her decisions to mentors, and wondering why her reputation wasn’t growing. She breaks down the exact moment she figured out the incongruency: the person who goes first doesn’t have directions, because she’s walking a path that’s never been walked before.She gets into what real leadership actually looks like, why learning has a season (and when that season ends), and the difference between picking a mentor’s brain as a thought partner versus outsourcing your responsibility so you don’t have to own the outcome.We cover:Why “just tell me what to do” is the behavior keeping you out of the top 1%The season of following Kim needed a book a day for 18 months and when she put it all downHow to be in mentorship without morphing into your mentor’s IPThe $48K mentor she’s in a 12-month contract with right now and how she uses it differentlyThe free Telegram community every mentor told her was “stupid” that made $300K in four monthsWalking the blueprint and writing the blueprint at the same timeThe questions to ask yourself to tell if you’re in a leader seat or a follower seatIf you know you’re meant to lead massively, this one’s going to sting in the best way.CHAPTERS0:00 Intro — if you’re listening, you’re a leader2:00 Saying you want to lead vs. actually leading3:30 “How are you going to lead when you’re asking for directions?”6:00 Kim calls herself out — the puppy-dog years8:30 Becoming Unapologetically Me through a podcast10:30 46K followers, posting 3x a day, still following13:00 Picking a brain vs. outsourcing the decision16:00 Taking radical accountability instead of getting gaslit18:30 The $3,600 container and the “masturbate to make money” advice22:00 Extracting the lesson from any room you’re in25:00 This is only for the women who want to lead massively27:30 Writing the blueprint while you walk it30:00 When mentees’ IP starts sounding exactly like their mentor’s33:00 The season of following Kim needed — a book a day36:00 The free Telegram everyone said was stupid — $300K in 4 months40:00 Trusting the data over every seven-figure mentor43:00 The questions that move you into the leader seat46:00 Spine straight, tits out — go be that bitchAlso search:How to become an industry leader in your nicheWhy self-leadership matters more than following a blueprintHow to trust yourself over your business mentors📲 Join the free Money Making Queens Telegram📱 Follow Kim on Instagram → @iamkimarneson🎧 Listen on Apple Podcasts · Spotify · YouTube#ThatBitchPodcast #MoneyMakingQueens #SelfLeadership #WomenInBusiness #FemaleEntrepreneur #IndustryLeader #ThatBitchEnergy #BusinessMentorship #MoneyMindset #EntrepreneurMindset
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