What If Your Opinion of You Mattered More? | With Starling

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Get in touch with us! What if the opinion you've been listening to most... shouldn't be theirs?Starling was once told she couldn't sing.She went on to become a signed singer-songwriter, tour with huge artists, work with Grammy-winning songwriters and reach millions of listeners.But this conversation goes somewhere much deeper than proving somebody wrong.Starling joins us for an incredibly open conversation about what happens when other people's words become part of the way you see yourself - and what it takes to rewrite that story.We talk about growing up without emotional safety, low self-worth, healing, money, nervous-system work and why becoming truly comfortable in your own skin can change everything.We also explore the pressure women feel to improve themselves, the difference between doing something from love versus doing it to become more lovable, what authenticity can cost you, and why you don't have to squeeze every part of yourself into one neat identity. Pasted textBecause perhaps the goal isn't becoming someone more worthy.Perhaps it's remembering that you already were.In this episode:Being told you can't do something and deciding whether you believe itHow low self-worth can infiltrate every area of your lifeWhy emotional safety mattersHealing without staying trapped in blameBeing both a masterpiece and a work in progressDoing the same thing for completely different reasonsWhy feeling at home in yourself is magneticWhat becoming more authentic can cost youTrusting yourself through periods of uncertaintyWhy other people's opinions don't get to define your identityRefusing to choose one box when you're made for more than one thingBecoming committed to the woman you decide to be. ──────────────────────── ✦ ──────────────────────── THE REIGN WHEN IT'S RAINING RETREATDo you know what you really desire?Not what you should want. Not what makes sense on paper.What do you really want?And what happens when you think about it?Does something light up... and then your very persuasive brain gives you seventeen perfectly sensible reasons why maybe now isn't the right time?On Sunday 15 November, just 12 women will join us at The Spa Hotel in Tunbridge Wells for one immersive day to get honest about what you really desire, notice where you've been thinking yourself away from it and move from:“I want...” to “I intend...”There'll be breathwork with Abi, hypnosis with Dolina, brilliant women, two hours in the Wellness Suite and seven days of support afterwards to help you keep moving towards what you chose.Our intention is that you leave able to say:I know what I want.I trust myself enough to back it.And I know what I'm doing next.There are only 12 places, and bookings are open now.👉 BOOK YOUR PLACE / FIND OUT MOREYou've thought about it enough. ──────────────────────── ✦ ────────────────────────Connect with Starling: Website: https://www.starlingsworld.com/Insta: starlingsworld ──────────────────────── ✦ ────────────────────────📥 Resources & Next Steps💌 Join our newsletter She Reigns If you're a woman who knows she's made for more but keeps hesitating, overthinking or doubting herself, join our free weekly newsletter, She Reigns.Every week we share honest conversations, practical mindset shifts and reflections to help you trust yourself and take action. 🎧 Explore more episodes of How to Reign When it’s Raining 📲 Connect with us on Instagram: @reignwhenitsraining ⭐️ If you enjoyed this episode, please share it or leave a review - it helps more women like you find us!🎙️ OVER TO YOUTell us what's going on. We'll tell you what we see.Got something you've been going round in circles about? A decision you've made 12 times and talked yourself out of 13? A situation you're simply too close to see clearly?Tap “Get in touch with us!” above 👆 to send us a written message or leave us a voice message of up to 60 seconds.You can stay completely anonymous. If you send a voice message, just let us know whether you're happy for us to play your voice on the podcast or whether you'd prefer us to share your situation anonymously.You don't need a beautifully worded question.Just tell us what's going on. ──────────────────────── ✦ ──────────────────────── Episode Time Stamps:00:00 Not Good Enough01:13 Instant Connection02:15 Career Highlights03:12 Earl Grey Ritual03:33 Pandemic Pivot04:55 Told You Cant Sing05:28 Childhood Survival Mode06:17 Drama School Doubts08:39 Self Worth Spiral10:47 Therapy And Safety12:24 Somatics And Coaching14:19 Turning Point Story18:31 Breaking Generational Cycles20:01 Beliefs Shape Reality20:55 Heart Coherence Power21:27 Science of Visualization22:27 Why Women Feel Not Enough24:11 Masterpiece vs Progress25:57 Retreat Invitation27:32 Creator Mindset29:08 Abundance Over Competition31:27 Magnetism of Realness35:23 Trust the Unfolding39:16 Don’t Die With Dreams40:18 Owning Many Identities41:58 Write Your New Story42:39 Key Takeaways and Farewell

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